A letter to my friends
if it feels like i'm spamming you guys a lot with stupid questions and fears, i'm sorry. I'm just constantly afraid that I'm messing up somewhere, that I'm doing something wrong and not realizing it. I'm afraid that, as life goes on, you decide i'm not worth talking to anymore. I've lived my life in emotional fear for so long I need to be constantly reminded if things aren't going wrong. Otherwise I being to fear the worst, to fear that I'm becoming nothing more than a distraction or annoyance to you all. I don't mean to say this to sound like a whiny bitch, but I dunno how else to word it. I never want to sound whiny or clingy.
On one hand, I know life moves forward. I know that we're all advancing and changing. Feelings change, our outlooks change, we're always changing. On the other hand, I don't want to be left behind. I've lost a few friends over the years because they've decided to just stop talking. I don't want to lose anyone else that way. I don't want to be left behind, or replaced. I like being friends with all of you. Being your friends, being there to help you when you're sad, to make you laugh and smile, that's literally the only way I can validate my own continued existence. Each time someone moves on and leaves, it feels like it's my fault. Like I failed them somehow.
If I offend any of you out there, if you feel like I;m not good enough, please tell me. I'd rather hear the painful truth than suffer in the agonizing unknown.